Welcome to A&J Lingerie and More...

Located in an old brownstone in the old flower district/tin pan alley, you will find the most welcoming lingerie and adult novelty shop in NYC. We pride ourselves on a comfortable setting with knowledgeable help with no pressure to buy and prices you can't beat.  We carry the following.....

Arousal creams and gels

Bachelorette party supplies, penis cake pans, boob cake pans, party games, decorations

Ball gags, O-ring gags, O-ring & nipple clamps, spider gag

Board games


Body and hair glitter

Bondage kits

Bunny 3pc set

Candy bras, g string, men's pouch, cuffs, tassels

Chocolate body paint, edible body paint


Collars, leash and collar, collar with nipple clamps

Crystal pasties for the body

Dental Dams

Devil 3pc set

Dice games

Disposable penis rings, reusable penis rings, rechargeable penis rings

Doggy strap, vibrating doggy strap

Door jam sex sling aka “Door sex swing”

Drip candles

Dry hands

Edible body dust

Edible undies, bras, and men's undies, edible condoms

Flavored condoms

Fleshlights, masturbating sleeves

Gloves, fingerless gloves

Handcuffs, restraints, ribbon, bondage tape, thigh cuffs, hogtie, door jam cuffs, Japanese silk rope

Leg garters, wrap around garters

Lingerie in sizes up to 3X, garter belts, thigh highs, pantyhose, robes, men's novelty underwear, booty shorts, crotchless underwear, thongs, bedroom costumes, fetish lingerie

Long gowns

Lover's lotto card

Lubricants, warming, cooling, water-based, silicone, hybrid

Male body harness

Masks, blindfolds, hoods, blindfold & ball gag

Massage oils, edible massage oils, massage candles, edible massage candles, massage lotions, edible massage lotions, edible warming massage lotions, massage gloves

Nipple clamps, y-style clamps

Novelty shot glasses, bachelorette and Bachelor shot glasses


Penis extensions

Penis lollipops, vagina lollipops, boob lollipops, novelty lollipops

Penis pumps

Penis thickening cream

Pheromone perfumes

Playing cards, bondage cards, sex position cards, drinking card game, Bachelorette bar challenge card game, intimate card game

Position master, position master with cuffs

Prostate toys

Rabbits, rechargeable rabbits

Rhinestone cat ear 2pc set

Sex Sling

Spreader bar

Stimulating Gels

Stimulating toys, bullets, rechargeable stimulating toys

Toy cleaner

Under the bed restraints

Vaginal Tightening gels

Vibrating mesh sponge

Wands, Magic Wand, rechargeable wands

Wartenberg pinwheel

We-Vibe, Partner

Whips, paddles, floggers, bullwhip

By entering this website you are consenting you are 18+ years of age.


Due to hygienic reasons, we do not accept returns or exchange on any items especially intimate apparel.

"What this midtown shop is missing in terms of modern trends, like wood tables and paintings on the wall, it more than makes up for with its customer service. For those looking to bring playful costumes and intricate lingerie into the bedroom, A&J is a treasure trove of fairly priced options, and the three generations running the family owned store—including a sex-positive grandma—are willing to help you sift through the options. Near the back there are vibrators and toys, and there’s a fair amount of goofy items to add fun to bachelorette parties, like X-rated spins on classic party games. 41 W 28th St (212-689-2415, ajlingerie.com)"-Time Out NY


"absolutely LOVE this place, from the moment I stepped inside I felt so comfortable, I was greeted and welcomed right away by a gentleman who handed me the price list, he was just awesome during the whole time I was in the store, very friendly and helpful." -Carmen C P., Brooklyn, NY

"Great Shop! Very friendly and cheap, will come back and recommend it to all my friends! Do take a peak inside there is no way youll come out empty handed because there just too much to play with at a great price." -Ana R., Manhattan, NY

"I read the reviews on Yelp, and had a long list of stores to visit. A & J was my first stop. As soon as i walked in i was greeted by the son, who asked if its my first time here, which i replied yes, he went on to explain the pricing of items. I felt very comfortable." -Debonair R., New York, NY


'Sylvia S., a 23-year-old Astoria, Queens, resident, surveyed the store with a few sexy costumes already in her hand. “I feel comfortable coming here,” she said, smiling as Ida looked at her selections with grandmotherly pride.' -New York Daily News